February 2012
This post is really just for Charlotte. I haven’t been following her for that long, but she is such a sweet girl, and she tries to help people the best she can in every aspect of life, whether it is talking about fitness, health, sex, or whatever you really ask her. She gives up a lot of her time to help people and answer questions, and I think that is something super sweet. Not to mention she is really nice! We all live busy lives and have our own things to deal with, so why? Why would anyone take the time to do something so unnecessary as to send any sort of negative message to her or anyone for that matter?
I don’t know if your mom taught you this, but if you don’t have anything nice to say, don’t say anything at all. Words hurt. I’ve seen it more than once on tumblr, and it really just makes me angry. If you’re angry at someone, or disagree with the way they are living, thats your opinion and you should probably keep that to yourself. Under no circumstance do I think its okay to tell someone that they are a horrible person, or that they’re a slut, whore, or whatever. Its her body and its her decision, and there is nothing wrong with having sex if you are being safe. And well, its just plain none of your business.
That’s not the point though. The point of this post, really, is to just tell you that no one deserves to be put down like that. These people blogging about their lives are opening up their world to you, and maybe you should take the time the appreciate them for that, for making the world a bit more interesting because they are sharing their world with us. And if you can’t appreciate it, then move on and read about someone else’s life instead.
It’s a real thing. No lie.
Well healthy lifestylers, whether you’re making your way to Healthy College Life for the first time ever or you’ve been a crazed fan for months, I’m SO excited that you’re here right now - I’ve got BIG news!
I’ve been working with my friends from Chobani (THEY’RE THE NICEST PEOPLE EVER.) to…
Oh, chobani…
For months now, I’ve been hearing people rave about this greek yogurt - its benefits and its awesome taste, but since I live in Canada, I couldn’t get any. Last week, I was in Loblaws with my mom, and I glanced in the yogurt section, and saw it as I was walking past, and thought my eyes were playing tricks on me. I took a second look, and there it was! Then I had to get it. Even if it costed me $1.99 a pop!
Then I went home and devoured it. I don’t even think devoured describes it. The first bite, tasted sour and weird, but as I mixed it with the fruit, it just got better and better. I keep thinking about it, but seriously, $1.99?
If theres a yogurt god out there, please consider that I’m a poor student that is just trying to make it through school right now and that I can’t afford to pay $1.99 per yogurt.
Anyway, if you live in Canada, and want to try it too, see if its sold near you by clicking here! I guess I’m lucky to be living in this part of Canada, I feel like we get everything first when things start migrating from the states.
- Give up trying to be perfect. – The real world doesn’t reward perfectionists, it rewards people who get things done.
- Give up comparing yourself to others. – The only person you are competing against is yourself.
- Give up dwelling on the past or worrying too much about the future. – Right now is the only moment guaranteed to you. Right now is life. Don’t miss it.
- Give up complaining. – Do something about it.
- Give up holding grudges. – Grudges are a waste of perfect happiness.
- Give up waiting. – What we don’t start today won’t be finished by tomorrow. Knowledge and intelligence are both useless without action.
- Give up lying. – In the long-run the truth always reveals itself. Either you own up to your actions or your actions will ultimately own you.
- Give up trying to avoid mistakes. – The only mistake that can truly hurt you is choosing to do nothing simply because you’re too scared to make a mistake.
- Give up saying, “I can’t.” – As Henry Ford put it, “Whether you think you can or you think you can’t, you are right.”
- Give up trying to be everything to everyone. – Making one person smile can change the world. Maybe not the whole world, but their world. Start small. Start now.
- Give up thinking you’re not ready. – Nobody ever feels 100% ready when an opportunity arises. Because most great opportunities in life force us to grow beyond our comfort zones, which means we won’t feel totally comfortable at first.
- Give up setting small goals for yourself. – Many people set small goals because they’re afraid to fail. Ironically, setting these small goals is what makes them fail.
- Give up trying to do everything by yourself. – You are the sum of the people you spend the most time with. If you work together, you will be far more capable and powerful than you ever could have been alone.
- Give up buying things you don’t need. – Manage your money wisely so your money does not manage you. Do not spend to impress others. Do not live life trying to fool yourself into thinking wealth is measured in material objects.
- Give up blaming others for your troubles. – The extent to which you can live your dream life depends on the extent to which you take responsibility for your life. When you blame others for what you’re going through, you deny responsibility – you give others power over that part of your life.
- Give up making mountains out of molehills. – One way to check if something is worth mulling over is to ask yourself this question: “Will this matter in one year’s time? Three years? Five years? If not, then it’s not worth worrying about.
- Give up trying to live up to the expectations of others. – Work on it for real and exceed your own expectations. Everything else will fall into place.
- Give up the ‘easy street’ mentality. – There is too much emphasis on finding a ‘quick fix’ in today’s society. For example taking diet pills to lose weight instead of exercising and eating well. No amount of magic fairy dust replaces diligent, focused, hard work.
- Give up making promises you can’t keep. – Don’t over-promise. Over-deliver on everything you do.
- Give up letting your thoughts and feelings bottle up inside. – People are not mind readers. They will never know how you feel unless you tell them.
- Give up beating around the bush. – Say what you mean and mean what you say. Communicate effectively.
- Give up avoiding change. – However good or bad a situation is now, it will change. That’s the one thing you can count on. So embrace change and realize that change happens for a reason. It won’t always be easy or obvious at first, but in the end it will be worth it.
- Give up your sense of entitlement. – Nobody is entitled to anything in this world. We are all equal. We breathe the same air. We get what we give. We get what we earn.
- Give up waiting until the last minute. – Those who fail to plan, plan to fail.
- Give up being dramatic. – Stay out of other people’s drama and don’t needlessly create your own.
- Give up being anti-athletic. – Get your body moving! Simply take a long, relaxing walk or commit 30 minutes to an at-home exercise program like the P90X workout.
- Give up junk food. – You are what you eat.
- Give up eating as a means of entertainment. – Don’t eat when you’re bored. Eat when you’re hungry.
- Give up foolish habits that you know are foolish. – Don’t text and drive. Don’t drink and drive. Don’t smoke. Etc.
- Give up relationships with people who bring you down. – Saying “no” to right people gives you the time and resources required to say “yes” to right opportunities. Spend time with nice people who are smart, driven and likeminded.
- Give up being shy. – Network with people. Meet new people. Ask questions. Introduce yourself.
- Give up worrying about what others think of you. – Unless you’re trying to make a great first impression (job interview, first date, etc.), don’t let the opinions of others stand in your way. What they think and say about you isn’t important. What is important is how you feel about yourself.
- Give up trying to control everything. – Life is an unpredictable phenomenon. No matter how good or bad things seem right now, we can never be 100% certain what will happen next. So do you best with what’s in front of you and leave the rest to the powers above you.
- Give up doing the same thing over and over again. – In order to grow, you must expand your horizons and break free of your comfort zone. If you keep doing what you’re doing, you’ll keep getting what you’re getting.
- Give up following the path of least resistance. – Life is not easy, especially when you plan on achieving something worthwhile. Don’t find the easy way out. Do something extraordinary.
- Give up persistent multi-tasking. – Do one thing at a time and do it right.
- Give up thinking others are luckier than you. – The harder you work, the luckier you will become.
- Give up filling every waking moment with commitments and activities. – It’s okay to be alone. It’s okay to do nothing sometimes. Think. Relax. Breathe. Be.
- Give up making emotional decisions. – Don’t let your emotions trump your intelligence. Slow down and think things through before you make any life-changing decisions.
- Give up doing the wrong things just because you can get away with it. – Just because you can get away with something doesn’t mean you should do it. Think bigger. Keep the end in mind. Do what you know in your heart is right.
- Give up focusing on what you don’t want to happen. – Focus on what you do want to happen. Positive thinking is at the forefront of every great success story. If you awake every morning with the thought that something wonderful will happen in your life today, and you pay close attention, you’ll often find that you’re right.
- Give up taking yourself so seriously. – Few others do anyway. So enjoy yourself and have a little fun while you can.
- Give up spending your life working in a career field you’re not passionate about. – Life is too short for such nonsense. The right career choice is based on one key point: Finding hard work you love doing. So if you catch yourself working hard and loving every minute of it, don’t stop. You’re on to something big. Because hard work ain’t hard when you concentrate on your passions.
- Give up thinking about the things you don’t have. – Appreciate everything you do have. Many people aren’t so lucky.
- Give up doubting others. – People who are determined do remarkable things. Remember, the one who says it can’t be done should never interrupt the one doing it.
- Give up fussing with every beauty product on the market. – Good looks attracts the eyes. Personality attracts the heart. Be proud to be you. That’s when you’re beautiful.
- Give up trying to fit in. – Don’t mold yourself into someone you’re not. Be yourself. Oftentimes, the only reason they want you to fit in is that once you do they can ignore you and go about their business.
- Give up trying to be different for the sake of being different. – Nonconformity for the sake of nonconformity is conformity. When people try too hard to be different, they usually end up being just like everyone else who is trying to be different. Once again, be yourself.
- Give up trying to avoid risk. – There’s no such thing as ‘risk free.’ Everything you do or don’t do has an inherent risk.
- Give up putting your own needs on the back burner. – Yes, help others, but help yourself too. If there was ever a moment to follow your passion and do something that matters to you, that moment is now.
And remember, mistakes make us human, failures help us grow, hope keeps us going and love is the reason we’re alive. So keep learning, loving and living. Never give up on yourself.
I believe I reblogged this before, but I haven’t seen it in awhile so… Reblog!
I hope that every one of you is able to appreciate and love the people in your life that matter to you most. This day isn’t limited to just a significant other, its all about celebrating the love in your life, whether its the love between you and your parents, the love between you and your friends, the love between you and your pet, or the love you should have for yourself.
You don’t have to send them cards, but who doesn’t love chocolates? Just appreciate them and let them know that you love them. Even though they should know, sometimes its feels nice to hear it.
I hope you guys all have a wonderful day!
For Valentine’s day this year, my ovaries decided to give me a gift. I don’t really appreciate the pain though. In addition, I will be spending all day with my biochemistry book in preparation for my test coming up on Friday.
No complaints though. Make up day (aka excuse to eat lots of chocolate and hang out with Francis all day and spend the night with him) is scheduled for Sunday - Monday since in Canada, it is Family Day on Monday in conjunction with my “Reading week,” which is also just the less fun sounding name for Spring break, except, its not in spring. Its in the middle of winter.
Today has been such a long and dreadful day, so I thought I’d remind myself of the good things I’m going to do this weekend!
Friday:
- hang out with Francis
- sleep, and probably eat some yummy food
Saturday:
- haircut (its almost to my butt, so I guess that means I really have to cut it)
- studying for biochem (not so much fun, but I know I’ll be happy I put in the time next week when I’m complaining I need more time)
- seeing Francis, and watching The Vow. I love Rachel McAdams!
Sunday:
- grocery shopping as per usual
- shopping, apparently there are some good deals out there, so I’m going to go look for them and get some cheap stuff!
- head back to school and study some more!
I hope everyone has a fantastic weekend! What are your plans?
I’ve been meaning to talk about this for awhile now, but sort of never got to it. I was going to set a bunch of new years resolutions for myself, and I had, but I really didn’t want to restrain myself to just new years, so I decided that if I noticed something about myself that needed to change, I’d do it, new years or not.
There is something about me that I’ve always hated, but never had the heart to do anything about and that is always feeling guilty for things I shouldn’t. I feel like I’m always doing things I don’t want to do, but I do them anyway because I feel obligated to. So I’ve starting saying no. I’ve always been terrible with that, but I’ve made it part of my list of things to do. I’m going to say no when I really don’t want to. I say yes way too often and it takes a toll on me. So here’s to growing up, learning to say no, making changes, and improving things in my life.
I have these things every once in a while, when I just feel overwhelmed. Not because I have too much work on my hands, even though I do have lots, but I feel emotionally overwhelmed. There are always times when I question myself and I constantly ask myself, “Stephanie, is this what you really want?” The answer is always I don’t know. I mean, how can I possibly know if this is what I want? There are a lot of things in my life where I feel like I have no choice. I hate a lot of the things I have to do, things that are required for the future, but I do them anyways because I “have to.” And in actuality, I don’t, but I do it anyway.
I continually put myself through this, and after I have some sort of epiphany about it all, it dwindles down, and I’m right back where I started, pondering if I made the right decision. If sticking through this will even really help me at all.
There are so many things I want in life. So many. I’m sure that all of you have felt this way. There are so many things that you can experience, so many places you can go, so many things you can see, feel, and touch. And I feel like if I continue going down the road I’m on right now, I won’t be able to do all the things I’ve wanted to do.
And then someone reminded me today that its not true. I may have chosen a path filled with lots of hard work and dedication, but that does not mean in any way that I have to give up everything I want and dedicate it all to my job. That certainly does not mean I wouldn’t put 100% effort into my job, but that also does not mean that I have to put 100% of my life into my job. This is just to remind myself that if i don’t try for my dream, I know I’ll regret it. So at least I can tell myself I tried. I know I’ll forget I said this, but in this moment, I feel stronger, and this is going to help me grow.
Everytime someone says, “Not to sound racist, but…” it is always followed by a racist comment. Just cause you announce that you might say something racist, doesn’t make it any less racist.
This goes the same with the saying, “No offense, but…” Just cause you try to excuse your following comment, does not make it any less offensive.
Not that I’m not guilty of any of this. I’m sure we all are at some point, but just something funny that I’ve been thinking about.
Me: Let’s name our pets after fruits (cause if you don’t all know already, I have a bunny named Mango)
Him: Okay. Watermelon.
Me: That’s too long. Melon?
Him: Kiwi.
Me: That’s cute, but I don’t like kiwis.
Him: Antelope.
Me: … That’s an animal.
Him: Oh, I meant CANTALOPE!
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I just really really like them. As cups, as holders, as food storage. If there is a club for jar fans, sign me up please.
Do you know what ‘pink slime’ is? If not, watch the video in the article to find out more about ‘pink slime’ and what you’re really eating when you eat hamburgers and other ground meat products.